Alfie’s Story: Children uprooted and torn from homes and communities sent hundreds of miles away from home.
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In the United Kingdom, thousands of children and young people are placed in the care system each year, often as a result of complex family situations, neglect, or abuse. While the care system is designed to provide support and protection, there are numerous challenges that these children face. Despite the best intentions, the current care system is often failing to meet the diverse and complex needs of children and young people, leading to poorer life outcomes for care leavers compared to their non-care experienced peers.
The Alarming Reality
Young people with care experience are more likely than their peers to enter the criminal justice system, more likely to become homeless, and, in the years after they leave school, less likely to be in further education, employment, or training. These statistics reflect a multitude of challenges and systemic issues that need to be addressed.
Children in the care system are also more at risk of experiencing poor mental health, often stemming from traumatic experiences before entering care. They may have already faced multiple disadvantages and complex challenges, including neglect, abuse, or separation from their families. The effects of such experiences can last for many years and may be exacerbated by the instability of being in care.
Alfie’s story is one of extraordinary courage. Alfie was diagnosed with osteosarcoma in July 2018 after experiencing difficulty walking on his ankle.
What Alfie and his family initially thought to be a sprained ankle, turned out to be osteosarcoma following an X-Ray and biopsy. Alfie soon started chemotherapy treatment, before his leg was amputated in November 2018.
When lockdown restrictions were first put in place in England due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Alfie was still reliant on a wheelchair and he had to start learning to walk again at home. Going back to school, . During these most difficult times in his life, Alfie was vulnerable and became a victim to bullies Alfie was looking for a sense of belonging and got himself involved with gangs. Alfie said “I ended up with the wrong crowd and got myself involved in criminality. Social services uprooted my life and placed me in a secure unit in Durham hundreds of miles away from my home and family. I still find it ironic that I was sent to a secure unit for 8 months to be surrounded by the very people the system didn’t want me to become.”
The Need for Change and a Holistic Approach
There are sector-wide problems and attitudes that need to be addressed, in particular, the tendency to treat children in the care system as problems rather than people. These young individuals deserve understanding, compassion, and support to overcome their challenges and build a brighter future.
There are specific areas of opportunity where targeted efforts could make a significant impact. Among these are mentoring and mental health support.
Mentoring provides a positive role model for children in care, offering guidance, encouragement, and a listening ear. It can help to boost self-esteem, build life skills, and provide a stable and supportive relationship that may be lacking elsewhere.
Mental health support is equally crucial. Across the country, mental health provision for looked-after children is severely lacking. It is vital that children in care receive timely and appropriate support for mental health issues. Unaddressed mental health challenges can drastically affect life outcomes and exacerbate existing disadvantages.
Together We Are Stronger
At Genuine Futures, we are committed to addressing the challenges faced by children in the care system and advocating for positive change. We believe in the potential of every young person, regardless of their background or circumstances.
Our Mission is to provide comprehensive support, mentoring, and mental health services to young people who have experienced care. We aim to break down barriers, enhance life opportunities, and empower these young individuals to achieve their full potential.
We invite you to join us in making a difference:
Partner with Us: Collaborate with Genuine Futures to create tailored programs and initiatives that address the unique needs of care-experienced young people.
Become a Patron: Your ongoing support allows us to continue our vital work and expand our reach to more young people in need.
Sponsor a Program or Young Person: Sponsorship provides targeted support, enabling us to deliver specific programs or offer tailored assistance to individual young people.
Join the Genuine Futures Community & Hub: Connect with like-minded individuals and organizations to share insights, resources, and best practices.
We welcome any support, donations, or fundraising efforts. Your contributions will directly support and impact our community outreach programs and make a tangible difference in the lives of young people in our communities.
We believe in the next generation. Together, we can create a brighter future for children in the care system and help them reach their full potential.
To find out more about our work and how you can get involved, email us at hello@genuinefutures.co.uk or visit our website at www.genuinefutures.co.uk.
Let’s work together for the greater good and ensure that no child is left behind. Together, we can transform lives and create lasting change.